Tag Archive for kids

My World Tour

Blogs make me happy, they give me this feeling that life has so much more to offer. Blogs are the best fantasy ever. Today, I want to share with you some of my favorite blogs.

As the list is crazy long I will share just a taste… and some takeoffs.

Are you ready?

My Parents were awesome

This is an amazing one, people uploading pics of their young cool-goofy parents, I can’t stop watching it… Oh, and see mine below!

 

 

The Glow

One day when I’ll grow up, I will be one of those women, I will have a great house, clean one. My kids will be clean too, and will wear cool things, colorful things. I’ll have the best kitchen to cook in and my hair will be just on the spot. In the meantime, for some reason – other women live my life, and you can see them here…

When I will be like them – it will look like this:

Her Bad Mother

Few of my new friends (when I will live the life we discussed above) will be bloggers, polished as this one. I love her pics, her way of thinking, and boy, I love her pics.

When I’ll be like her, all my pics will glow

The Man Repeller

This dudette would not take anything from anyone, she is cute, so funny, free spirit and has the best eclectic taste ever. She will be my friend too one day, but she still doesn’t know it, lucky girl.

She said:

MAN·RE·PELL·ER1  [MAHN-REE-PELLER]

–noun

outfitting oneself in a sartorially offensive way that will result in repelling members of the opposite sex. Such garments include but are not limited to harem pants, boyfriend jeans, overalls (see: human repelling), shoulder pads, full length jumpsuits, jewelry that resembles violent weaponry and clogs.

–verb (used without object),-pell·ing, -pell·ed.

to commit the act of repelling men:

Girl 1: What are you wearing to the party?

Girl 2: My sweet lime green drop crotch utility pants!

Girl 1: Oh, so we’re man repelling tonight?

*DISCLAIMER: the above conversation is not a dramatization, took place in this room 5 minutes ago.

I can never have such nice cloths…

How To Be A Dad

Charlie and Andy are 2 fathers and so much more, they have the best graphic look and feel around, the cutest baby ever (Charlie’s) and the right hype for now. I love their multi-platform behavior (twitter/FB/istagram/youtube and more), these guys are taking blogging and interpersonal relationships seriously. I appreciate it.

But more than anything, they just make me laugh, kudos!

What Katie Ate

Damn, I am hungry.

I love food too..

From me to you

Full of inspiration, love for life, photography, food and good-looking things. I keep visiting this blog in order to clean my mind and soul… 

My Feel-good blogs:

 

Vikido in the eye of the user

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Doron (my 6 years old daughter) has built a computer with Vikido on it. As you can see, she exposed the new web-interface (to be released soon)

 

 

Life with feedback – an act and reaction in a children’s application

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Anyone working with designing and building websites and applications knows how important feedback is. An application without feedback is vague, mysterious and sad. When you design for children you have to pay special attention to the right feedback and internal reward. Kids aren’t small adults; they believe and trust even interfaces they see. One of my saddest experiences as a parent was the day when Tamar ran to me enthusiastically from her computer to tell me there’s a chance to win a quarter of a million dollars because she’s the 1000th surfer on some despicable game site. At that moment I was overwhelmed with sadness and fear – it’s hard to describe the feeling, the trust she had in what she saw on the computer broke my heart.

Even so, kids are much smarter then we tend to think and they know much more than most of us would expect.

They have small hands that need to be taken into account, and other insights about the world, they don’t have the same conception we do about the internet, its content, and the scope of information it contains. In this sense, planning an interface for children is a most wondrous adventure, and it takes you to new and fascinating places in both the product sense and the psychological sense. The introduction to iPhones only doubled the size of the problem and expanded its characterization.

Just as in education, consistency brings the best results in applications as well. When we teach a child to expect something and then we rattle the ground beneath his feet, the results can be devastating, and since we’re talking about common and very impatient users, inconsistency can lead to fast tempers and an uncontrollable will to throw the device and that’s bad for both the parent and the application.

Whatever doesn’t happen – didn’t happen

Sometimes kids are very much like the Ravenous Bugblatter Beast of Traal (“… it assumes that if someone cannot see it, it cannot see them …” – from The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy) if they don’t see what’s happening, they assume it never happened. Therefore, when you are about to design something for children, be sure to leave distinct signs that something happened, that the system noticed an action – did you send something to someone? Did you move something from place to place? Did you click something? Something different has to happen.

 

 Example – nickjr: hovering with the mouse on every character makes it pop up and do something identifiable with it, this creates a reactionary feeling and non-stop action – generally this site is one of the best in my opinion, as far as the interface design is concerned.

A mall will be built here

In the lifecycle of every big web project, there’s a stage in which everyone sits, bleary-eyed, regarding the features and express whatever comes to mind. “Here”, says the product manager, “here will be a banner with five air directions, fountains, and touching illustrations”, everyone nods enthusiastically. Careful! You have reached the “A mall will be built here” stage.

In the beginning it’s an exciting stage, everyone fantasizes differently about how the mall will look. One has a McDonalds and marble fountains, the second has fashion stores, and the third has goods shops. Everyone has a predisposed expectation on what’s going to be there. The problem is that everyone has a different idea, different opinions and different fantasies.

Kids don’t know malls. If you leave grey areas (in both the physical and theoretical sense) in applications, as far as they’re concerned, they don’t exist. Don’t let them err in their path and reach places no other man has been before. The child needs to understand where he is and where he’s going throughout his use of the application.

If you try to tell them that “here is something else”, they will immediately demand to know what that something is, they aren’t strong with time or imagining what you want them to imagine.

In times of embarrassment – stress!

Kids, like certain adults (um… guilty as charged), tend to assume that whatever doesn’t work by force will work with more force and whatever doesn’t work with one click will work with four hundred clicks. If something doesn’t happen the second they expect it to, they assume it doesn’t work and their logic implies that if they press the mouse or keyboard button again and again and again, the reluctant application will run and something magical will happen. Since applications aren’t built to such absurd use scenarios, they will react like most programs and will likely most luxuriously collapse. Therefore you need to solve the problem before it even comes up and give immediate feedback (even if nothing will happen anytime soon).

Keep the clicks from being devastating – no action that a child does needs to bring upon the collapse of the application/logout/change of operation mode/deletion without feedback and more. The less you allow your child to destroy, the more you’ll be able to keep the application alive and well.

Talking Tom hears a who – fast response with every click, every speech, every touch

Break Routine

There is no chance your child will be ready to accept an unimaginative and boring routine, and between us, in your applications you have to take the same approach. There are millions of applications for children, the best of which are frequently updated and upgraded (e.g. Talking Tom). Take care to show the child all the changes that have occurred, invite him (via the opening page, or banners in the applications, or best of all – through a content game) to see the new and exciting things he can do. But please – don’t be assholes and try to squeeze money out of him, any application that once downloaded offer the child millions of things for money and use the previous appendix (when embarrassed – stress!) to make the child download fruit for the mice for one hundred dollars – shame on you! (I just heard about a kid who bought things at “tap zoo” worth $100)

And again, Talking Tom shows us how worthwhile it is to download more friends, and it works.

Behind every child is a parent

When it comes down to it – behind every child is a parent and the design needs to be aimed at him as well. The hints to what the parent likes, plays or uses himself will give you extra points. On the other hand – use that “requires” a parent to be present and active will drive the average parent crazy very fast and will make him secretly erase the application from the device or at least make sure the child never reaches it again. I always like to try and wink at the parent by creating an interface that will awaken nostalgic feelings. I want the parent to thing: “when I was a kid, I had fun and this and that… and I want my own child to experience similar things”. I want to awaken this feeling in the parent without them realizing that I’m doing it.

From bitter experience – make it fun for the parents too. Don’t force them to use it, applications for children are babysitters in smooth disguises, don’t forget that.

In the picture – nostalgia

Mom, look

Despite what is said in the previous appendix, it is important that your application will be something that will make the child run to their parent all the time so that can “see” what the child built, the prize he won, sharing option, a picture he took where he looks more amazing than usual, a picture he took and added things too, a painting, and more. Anything that makes the child run to their parent for positive reinforcement every several minutes is positive for your application as well.

In the picture – Tamar is sending me a Vikido message

Accessibility

Kids approach devices different and at different times than adults, mostly they’ll have limited access to devices of all kinds. That is why there should be a fast and satisfying enough way for them to be able to approach it again when they can. When designing the application, take into account the context of their action: where and when will the child be near the application? Vacations, kindergarten, schools, and more – we need to take everything into account because the world we all live in does not match the world of the average child. He does not have available internet, a device of his own, outgoing calls to his friends on programs and devices and more (though the amount of mobile phones kids have today is changing, buy it’s still something to take into account).

All the rest

Oy vay, I haven’t even talked about the most important issue of all, for example the connection between the parent and child, online safety, the need to explain things carefully to the parent, combining the application with school and daily life, and the big game question (even Google ads a gaming edge to their gray services…) and more and more and more. These past years I’m working a lot on products that are for kids of all ages – and I think it’s just the tip of the iceberg.

The Confusion of Tongues – Part 2

The Confusion of Tongues – part 1  

The Connection Between Personal Identity, Self Confidence, Gender and the Internet

From the moment a person has the chance to look at himself in paintings, photographs and videos, a gap is created between the way that person perceives himself and the environment. The partial control he once had when looking at his pictures becomes his representative in the world.

In our case, we want to know what happens with children from whom this (imagined) control is taken. Parents spend 15 percent of their time on the web dealing with matters related to their children, including online forum discussions, uploading pictures to Facebook and various sharing websites, and more. A child that grows up in this situation is basically a child who has been documented and published since age zero, and when he reaches the age where he discovers this disturbs him (or not), it will already be too late.

We can see the gap between the self perception of children (for example, insecure teenagers) and their posturing on social networks (sexy pictures, pictures from parties, thousands of pictures documenting what the child would previously have wanted to hide). We can only conclude that the children of today have learned, one way or another, to separate who they are from the way they are represented by themselves and by others on social media.

Is this separation appropriate for children? It is not even appropriate for adults – so what is its effect on children at an age where (as illustrated above) they are not yet able to navigate the world on their own and / or differentiate between that world and their still unformed internal world?

In contrast to adults, most children tend to present themselves on the internet using their real identifying details (age, name, occupation, school, and sometimes also addresses and phone numbers). Of course, these steps result on the one hand in strengthening the child’s identification with their internet presence, however, it also represents an increased risk.

The inconceivable availability of intermediation and transfer methods (pictures, videos, text) allows for unlimited accessibility and minimal filtering, has resulted in the phenomena of massive uploading and tagging becoming something that can no longer be ignored. From the perspective of the photography medium, this is a step upwards (or, some would say, downwards), however, it is a situation wherein the photographic medium is no longer proving itself as an experimental medium,  and is now a language unto itself, spoken all over the world (an interesting phenomenon is the picture websites, which bridge over all language barriers and create a community based on visuals alone) by children and teens. This language is more accessible than all others, and one picture accompanied by a few very basic words (where the actual mass in which the pictures are uploaded is a statement and narrative in its own right), suffices to tell the whole story.

The use of the computer and photographic language strengthens one’s ability to think in patterns and metaphors, and improves children’s visual and spatial perception, so the use of this new language need not necessarily harm their other capabilities – on the contrary.

We might have expected to see an improved, more aware style of writing today, however, in its place, we now see a new, shortened, common language, a collection of phrases and words that create a renewed lexicon typical to each “community” where, for the most part, typing is not interrupted to worry about things like phrasing, errors, editing, but rather serves as an extension to the speaking organ, as opposed to what one might have expected.
On the other hand, the anonymity of the web also facilitates outbursts of evil, repressed anger and an intention to cause malicious harm (we have already noted that there is no essential difference between the outside world and the virtual “home” with transparent walls).

This ability to find new friends and comrades, and to find support and a source of information is not only bad. The ability of the internet to raise children to a new level of development does exist, although parents must known how to support this process, in order to resume their proper role as parent. Just as parents teach their children about road safety, they should also teach them how to use the internet (not technically, but emotionally). I don’t see this new, fascinating medium only as a source of evil, as it is sometimes portrayed today. On the contrary, I see our current stage as an intermediate, inter-generational stage, which may harm an entire generation of children who lack the ability to understand their actions and what they should (perhaps) be doing.

What should website owners do? What are their responsibilities?

The Children’s Online Privacy Protection Act(COPPA(1998)) prohibits saving personal information about children under the age of 13 without the consent of their parents; among other provisions, it prohibits saving first and last names, addresses, e-mail addresses, telephone numbers and other data which can be used to find children.

In contrast to practice in Israel, the COPPA approach realizes that children can and do provide details that adults would never provide, some of which may be used for harmful purposes. Therefore, children’s websites should first identify who their target crowd is, should know how to save information properly, and should clarify unequivocally what exactly they intend to do with that information.

There is a real and (almost entirely) unimplemented need for more intelligent intermediation between children and the internet. The endless enticements of the internet can, as noted above, be dangerous to children surfing the web, and just as we have specially designed safety devices in our cars, special safety regulations for children, road rules which we all know by heart, and more – so too we also need mechanisms on the internet to enable children to enjoy all the good it has to offer, while protecting them from making mistakes that adults would have known to avoid.

Currently, children are galloping headfirst into the storm, and if you ask them about it, they won’t even understand what you’re talking about. Facebook is an extension of their lives, and as such it serves as a catalyst for processes that they would otherwise have undergone over a period of weeks and months (and during which they would have shown warning signs, or any signs at all, long before the process reached its peak). In light of all this, parents today have no excuse for being surprised and wondering “how this could have happened out of the blue ”.

The Confusion of Tongues – part 1  

 

 

 

 

Kids recommending Books

As part of Vikido’s co-work with MyFirstHomePage.co.il – Israel’s largest start page for kids, we are launching a special video gallery, dedicated to Hebrew Book Week 2010.
The gallery offers book recommendations for kids, by kids.

Here’s a sample from the gallery – Doron recommends her favorite book:

Reading/viewing list

Lately, while researching, I keep bumping into great things in this jungle of parents/kids/internet/gadgets, and I thought I should share.. (you can see more of them at Vikido’s twitter @vikidoteam)

Style your Barbie (via @chip_chick)

you can pick different Barbie figures, hair, skin color, and then style her according to your to your own personal taste. Press done and in minutes your doll

is being created right in front of your very eyes

iPhone for kids? apparently yes!

This is a beautiful smart blog taking care of this issue (and don’t forget his mother, iPhone for moms)

And as I replayed for someone who asked me “what about the dads”? well, *all* the iphone(s) are for dads..

Make your own nature movie

By  national geographic

Make a touch screen out of your computer (via makezine.com)

A touch screen you put on your PC for $39 – it’s meant for little kids to point and play games, great sulotion

Video for your kids? try Kideos

Cute and fun sorting for specific ages,  easy mark on any video to whom it fits..

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Foe dessert (via LookCool)

The sandwich art..

Bon appetit!